so..... this is long but please read and share your thoughts...
i took the kids today to a "pre-competative talent assessment" at their gym club, so i could see which level they should be in, as registration is coming up. i was hoping hallie would be able to move up to pre-competative.... however they just suggested she go to the next "rec" level which is 1.5hrs/week, just one day. same as she is currently in.
now my son, on the other hand, shocked me. he is currently in a rec program 1 level below hallie, for 1 hour per week. he did the assessment today and i was told they want him to join their competative team, not even pre-comp, but competative?!!! wowza!! he only JUST turned 4yrs and he would be the youngest one by far, but i guess they were very impressed with him. he is a strong boy, well coordinated, etc. (started riding his 2-wheeler bike this summer at age 3.5yrs, scales our fridge at home, does the full set of monkey bars at the park at 3.5yrs, can do flips on the tramp, etc.)
so they handed me the package and the time commitment and cost is just a lot more than i expected! it's approx. 3x MORE money than his current rec program, and that's based on 6 hours per week. he would go 2 days per week, 3 hours each day 4:30-7:30pm. he normally goes to bed at 7pm but he would be ok later, just tired unless he napped that afternoon, which he somtimes does. the "team" he would be with would be there 3 days per week, but since he's only 4 they suggested 2 days.
i am thinking maybe 2 or 3 days, but only 2 hours per day IF he goes. 3 hours is just so long for a 4 yr old. unless he's having a blast.... so i just don't know....what are your thoughts? get in while he can, even though he is young? or just sign up for rec again, and revisit this competative idea when he's older?? i was thrilled when they said my son had talent, but after looking at the manual they gave me to read, it just seems like a lot of time for him at such a young age, and time commitment for me too, not to mention money....aaaahhhhhhhh !!!! thoughts?!?!? **want to add that it's not a major time commitment for me since i can drop him off/pick him up, i'm not required to stay there although i would to begin with...
my mom thinks it's insane that i'm even considering it. i think i'll go one day without kids and watch the team he'd be with, see the coach, see what they do for 3 hours, etc. and go from there.... i just don't know?!!